The First Worst Day
Will and I decided we were ready for a baby over a year before we started trying. We knew we wanted to be near my family, and since my parents surprised us with moving to Texas somewhat suddenly, we decided to try to return to Texas as well. I’m one of those obnoxious Texans who LOVES my state, and since Florida no longer seemed to be in the cards, Texas was the logical place to go. I grew up quite far from my extended family, and since they all seemed to be congregating in the Dallas area, the idea of having a child grow up near their cousins and grandparents was thrilling to me. In the time between our first baby talks and our permanent move to Dallas, I dreamed up all kinds of scenarios for our future child. Smart, they would have to be smart. Athletic? Maybe. Gymnastics or snow skiing, something different than your normal after school sports (I know…snow skiing in Texas. I didn’t say my scenarios were realistic). They’d be an Aggie, of course. But perhaps they would apply to some ...